Stitch Your Story
Sankofa's Silhouette

Retreat Dates: October 8 - 13

A visual map of reconnection...

Utilizing the rich, wax-resist artistry of Afrikan batiks symbolizing the bridge between our current selves and our ancestral roots, we will stitch our story by creating a quilted wall hanging.

The vertical column construction represents a pillar of strength. The binding, made from the very fabric that supports the quilt, reminds us that our history is what frames and protects our future.

As you stitch, you are not just joining fabric, you are practicing the principle of "sankofa". You are "reaching back to fetch" the stories of those who came before. We cannot let our stories be erased or forgotten...

Join the Sahwira Sisterhood for 5 days of storytelling and story quilt making.

Guided by Curate Naa Kwarley Amissah

with Guest Co-Facilitators Isabelle Guzman Stark and Marva L. Bush

This retreat is open to all interested women.

Our Ancestors ensured that we would never forget our true history. They passed down their stories in many ways, including oral traditions and concrete artifacts:

  • Braided Hair Styles (specific to their region or spiritual traditions)

  • Cooking Tools and Utensils

  • Coded Maps to Freedom

  • Story Quilts...

Honoring Our Ancestors and Our Roots

We must ensure that our stories are told and remembered. Our Ancestors chose many methods to convey the stories of our people. The Native Americans use Morning Star Quilts that they make with their own hands to tell the story of their history and the families in their tribes. The Latino people make Chicano Power posters, cardboard butterfly wings, and other artifacts to document their history and heritage. People in the Afrikan Diaspora create Story Quilts to document their stories. Many cultures of color have passed down traditions to never forget who they are, where they came from, and the story of their people and ensure that their history lives on.

The Stitch Your Story Retreat is an exercise in continuing these practices and ensuring the tradition is passed down for many generations to come.

Together, we will follow the methods of the people of the Afrikan Diaspora and create Sankofa's Silhouette: a 4-panel wall hanging honoring our own stories. Whether or not you are of Afrikan descent, this practice is vital to our very survival. It is not cultural appropriation; rather it is cultural appreciation. To learn the ways of the Ancestors so that we can keep these practices alive is an appreciation of their struggle, their journey, to ensure that we would be able to exist.

"It is not taboo to go back and fetch what you forgot."

No sewing experience necessary.

A NOTE FROM NAA KWARLEY AMISSAH

Hey! Hey!! I am SO excited to welcome you to the Stitch Your Story Retreat! For me, this is a dream come true...

You see, I've dreamt of this moment for many years - gathering women together in sisterhood, story, and creativity. But, as we have all experienced, life "life-d" and this dream was put on hold. Not this year! In this year of the Fire Horse and my 60th solar return, I am making my dream a reality.

The Ancestors have spoken! They have been calling upon me to gather women for quite some time. To share creativity, storytelling, and to create a record of our very existence. Beyond birth records and what we have done/are doing for a living. Beyond the mundane...I have been called to guide women in leaving an indelible mark on this world. What better way than to create a visible, tangible record of Who We Be?

We gather on October 8th with an opening Story Circle to share our stories and strengthen the bonds of sisterhood (sharing your story is optional). I will go over with you what we will be doing over the next 4 days to create our wall hanging. Each person will create their own Sankofa's Silhouette (story quilt) and leave the retreat on October 13th with a completed home or office décor item to adorn their space.

You may be wondering how we're going to complete a wall hanging of this size (14x42 inches) in just over 4 days, but I have a plan! And no - prior experience in sewing is not required. Our Ancestors did what they could with what had. Simple supplies and tools. No sewing machine to assist them in completing bed-sized quilts. Our Sankofa's Silhouette is only a fraction of the size in comparison and we will be replicating the methods of the Ancestors in making out wall hanging.

I am a Certified Curate of Intentional Creativity® - a methodology based on creating with intention which can be very healing. A curate is someone who cares for the soul of the community. The village hearth tender and medicine woman. I am a healer, but I don't heal anyone but myself. I simply provide you with tools for your medicine basket as I guide you in using them to assist you in doing the work to heal yourself. This retreat does not offer any therapy services and I am not a therapist.

I am simply a woman of Afrikan descent who enjoys being in circle with other women and using the tools at our disposal to become healed enough. My vision is to empower you, share healing tools with you, and encourage and uplift you. And - I can't wait to embrace you as you cross the threshhold of word+image+symbol to manifest a visual queue of who you are as you recognize and reclaim your Ancestral roots. It is time to embrace our roots!

Why a retreat and not just a weekend event? Because sometimes we just need to unplug - from what's going on in the world, from our home life, from our job... The Stitch Your Story Retreat is designed to give you 5 days where you are focused on YOU without distraction.

Won't you give yourself this gift of rest and relaxation so you can recharge and relate better to your world? Join me!

In abundant love and sisterhood,

Naa Kwarley

WHO: The Sahwira Sisterhood, guided by Curate Naa Kwarley Amissah

WHAT: Stitch Your Story - the making of Sankofa's Silhouette, a quilted wall hanging

WHERE: The Woodleaf House at Pearlstone Center, Reisterstown Maryland

WHEN: October 8 through 13, 2026

HOW: As the Ancestors did, we will stitch together a 4-panel wall hanging honoring our stories. No sewing experience necessary. All tools and materials will be provided.

We continue the traditions of our Ancestors, thereby honoring them. At the same time, we ensure our stories are preserved for time immemorial.

Lodging, Travel, and Meals

We will be staying in the Woodleaf House at the Pearlstone Center - a beautiful single family home. This facility has 7 bedrooms and 5.5 bathrooms as well as a full kitchen.

Lodging and all meals are included.

The Pearlstone Center is about 30 minutes NW of Baltimore. From Thurgood Marshall International Airport (BWI), it is approximately a 40 minute drive. Car rental is available. The airport also has robust rideshare accommodations (Lyft/Uber), which pickup quickly - usually within 5 minutes of requesting service.

Please note that all supplies are included. You will only need to bring memorabilia that you would like to add to your wall hanging. Full details will be emailed to you upon enrollment.

Meditative Movement

Included in our Retreat - Meditative Movement

Connecting Mind, Voice, Heart, Womb, and Feet

A Whole Body Experience!

Each morning prior to our creative process, join Isabelle Guzman Stark, Mystic and Certified Intentional Creativity® Educator, on the lawn for 45 minutes of Meditative Movement and connecting with nature. Isabelle will guide us through sensual movement of our bodies to help us connect with nature and our Inner Being. This movement is a meditation - an opportunity to clear your mind and allow you to become one with nature and the creative process.

This activity is optional but strongly encouraged.

ABOUT ISABELLE

Isabelle Guzman Stark is a positive spirited woman from South America. She is a Minister of Spiritual Science and has dedicated her life since 2000 with her mission being to support and assist the restoration of the spiritual wellbeing of others.

Isabelle is a holistic herbalist and enjoys growing her
medicinal herbs. She is a women’s circle facilitator, a reiki master teacher, intuitive tarot reader and
empath. Isabelle recently graduated from the Color of Woman Teacher Certification Training Course at MUSEA Center for Intentional Creativity® and is a student of IFA Yoruba African Studies at Ifalobaorisa Temple. She currently lives in Silver Spring, Maryland.

Ancestor Healing

with Marva Collins Bush

Elder Marva L. Bush will join us and share conversation on Ancestor Healing. Each morning after our Meditative Movement session, we gather for nourishment and stories on how to heal the ancestral wound.

ABOUT MARVA

Marva has a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and a Master’s Degree in Social Psychology. She has completed Ancestor Healing Training with Daniel Foor and is an Internal Family Systems Trained Practitioner as well as a Certified Guardian, graduating from MUSEA's Guardian Certification Training program.

Àbáké's Story: A Story of Remembering...

Stolen from West Afrika over 50 years after the slave trade was ruled illegal, a young girl just 2 years old named Àbáké survived the transatlantic trip from the Motherland aboard the slave ship named Cotilda and landed as an enslaved person in Alabama. After unloading their illegal "cargo", the Cotilda was burned and sank to hide the evidence of these colonizers illegal actions. A measure to erase her, her family, and the many other abducted Afrikans who were illegally brought here, including Àbáké's mother and sisters.

Stripped from her homeland and too young to remember much about her Afrikan roots, heritage, culture, and traditions - the Yoruban culture, rich in culture, art, and spiritual traditions - her mother braided into her hair the traditional patterns of the Yoruban people, ensuring that she would always have some connection to her roots. Every twist, every pattern, every strand pulled into the intricate designs was a message from her mother: No matter what their circumstances were in the New World, you come from a people. You come from a place. You have a history that did not begin on this ship and does not belong to the man who claims to own you. Àbáké's mother ensured that she would always remember...

Given the name Matilda by her slave owners, Ábáké was freed from the bondage of slavery just 5 years later, at the age of 7. She lived to raise 14 children of her own and walked 15 miles, in her seventies to demand reparation for her stolen childhood. Àbáké did not remain silent! She did not fade away. She made the conscious decision to let her voice be heard regarding the atrocities done to her. She ensured that her story was permanently recorded in the court records - proof that she exists and a written account of her story. She refused to let her story be erased!

She did not die in the 1800s. She died in 1940 at the age of 82.

This is not some story of times long ago. She is the last known survivor of the last slave ship to reach America, and she died the same year that McDonald's opened its doors and Bugs Bunny made his debut. Think about that... Àbáké lived into the middle of the 20th century! She passed away less than a century ago... And in her passing, her story remains clear and documented - just as her mother made it clear that Àbáké had family, history, culture, traditions, and heritage rooted in Afrika.

Pearlstone Center

Located in Reisterstown, Maryland, the Pearlstone Center is home to a USDA certified organic farm where sustainable agricultural practices have been implemented to preserve the land and provide a wholesome food source. The people who steward the land honor the land and the original stewards.

The Grounds

The Pearlstone Center is an amazing property located in Reisterstown Maryland, about 30 minutes NW of Baltimore. It is approximately a 36 minute drive from the Thurgood Marshall International Aiport (BWI) and 90 minutes from Washington Dulles (IAD).

With 180 acres of lush forests, rolling hills, wild meadows, and organic farmland, Pearlstone Center provides our retreat with a scenic and serene atmosphere - most conducive to the work we will embark on.

The Woodleaf House

Our lodging for the retreat, the Woodleaf House offers us these amenities:

  • fully equipped eat-in kitchen with coffee maker

  • cookware, dinnerware, and cutlery

  • rear deck with propane grill

  • indoor fireplace, outdoor fire pit

  • linens for bed, bath, & pool

  • essentials – soap, toilet paper, trash bags

  • washer & dryer

  • central air conditioning & heating

  • home safety: smoke & carbon monoxide alarms, fire extinguisher

  • free parking on premises

*Meals are provided as part of the Retreat - healthy salads for lunch, and traditional African American and South American dishes for dinner. We invite you to bring healthy snacks to share. Chocolate will be provided!

STILL NOT SURE?

Frequently Asked Questions

We understand that you may have questions. Below please find the answers to questions most often asked.

Please reach out to [email protected] if you have additional questions or concerns.

Who is the retreat for?

Stitch Your Story: Sankofa's Silhouette is for women who are called to reconnect to their true Ancestral roots. All are welcome.

Do I need to know how to sew?

Absolutely not! This retreat is for everyone from new to sewing to expert sewists. Full instructions will be given as well as hands on guidance as necessary.

What materials and supplies will I need to bring with me?

Please bring a journal and pen to write anything that arises for you during the retreat. There will also be journal exercises offered. The only other materials you will need to bring along is any memorabilia or trinkets that you would like to add to your Sankofa's Silhouette. Full details on items that can be stitched to the wall hanging will be sent via email upon enrollment.

Do the supplies include the wooden hanging rails that are in the picture?

No - hanging rails are not included. The Sankofa's Silhouette will be finished with rod pockets on the back of the wall hanging, allowing you to insert your own dowel to use to hang the completed home décor piece on your wall.

Can I bring a girlfriend and share the room with her?

Absolutely! But only in the Queen Bed accommodations. There is an additional charge for an additional person in your room. Please email [email protected] to request an additional guest registration for your room.