
Braided Hair Styles (specific to their region or spiritual traditions)
Cooking Tools and Utensils
Coded Maps to Freedom
Story Quilts...




Stolen from West Afrika over 50 years after the slave trade was ruled illegal, a young girl just 2 years old named Àbáké survived the transatlantic trip from the Motherland aboard the slave ship named Cotilda and landed as an enslaved person in Alabama. After unloading their illegal "cargo", the Cotilda was burned and sank to hide the evidence of these colonizers illegal actions. A measure to erase her, her family, and the many other abducted Afrikans who were illegally brought here, including Àbáké's mother and sisters.
Stripped from her homeland and too young to remember much about her Afrikan roots, heritage, culture, and traditions - the Yoruban culture, rich in culture, art, and spiritual traditions - her mother braided into her hair the traditional patterns of the Yoruban people, ensuring that she would always have some connection to her roots. Every twist, every pattern, every strand pulled into the intricate designs was a message from her mother: No matter what their circumstances were in the New World, you come from a people. You come from a place. You have a history that did not begin on this ship and does not belong to the man who claims to own you. Àbáké's mother ensured that she would always remember...
Given the name Matilda by her slave owners, Ábáké was freed from the bondage of slavery just 5 years later, at the age of 7. She lived to raise 14 children of her own and walked 15 miles, in her seventies to demand reparation for her stolen childhood. Àbáké did not remain silent! She did not fade away. She made the conscious decision to let her voice be heard regarding the atrocities done to her. She ensured that her story was permanently recorded in the court records - proof that she exists and a written account of her story. She refused to let her story be erased!
She did not die in the 1800s. She died in 1940 at the age of 82.
This is not some story of times long ago. She is the last known survivor of the last slave ship to reach America, and she died the same year that McDonald's opened its doors and Bugs Bunny made his debut. Think about that... Àbáké lived into the middle of the 20th century! She passed away less than a century ago... And in her passing, her story remains clear and documented - just as her mother made it clear that Àbáké had family, history, culture, traditions, and heritage rooted in Afrika.


The Grounds
The Pearlstone Center is an amazing property located in Reisterstown Maryland, about 30 minutes NW of Baltimore. It is approximately a 36 minute drive from the Thurgood Marshall International Aiport (BWI) and 90 minutes from Washington Dulles (IAD).
With 180 acres of lush forests, rolling hills, wild meadows, and organic farmland, Pearlstone Center provides our retreat with a scenic and serene atmosphere - most conducive to the work we will embark on.
The Woodleaf House
Our lodging for the retreat, the Woodleaf House offers us these amenities:
fully equipped eat-in kitchen with coffee maker
cookware, dinnerware, and cutlery
rear deck with propane grill
indoor fireplace, outdoor fire pit
linens for bed, bath, & pool
essentials – soap, toilet paper, trash bags
washer & dryer
central air conditioning & heating
home safety: smoke & carbon monoxide alarms, fire extinguisher
free parking on premises
*Meals are provided as part of the Retreat - healthy salads for lunch, and traditional African American and South American dishes for dinner. We invite you to bring healthy snacks to share. Chocolate will be provided!




We understand that you may have questions. Below please find the answers to questions most often asked.
Please reach out to [email protected] if you have additional questions or concerns.
Stitch Your Story: Sankofa's Silhouette is for women who are called to reconnect to their true Ancestral roots. All are welcome.
Absolutely not! This retreat is for everyone from new to sewing to expert sewists. Full instructions will be given as well as hands on guidance as necessary.
Please bring a journal and pen to write anything that arises for you during the retreat. There will also be journal exercises offered. The only other materials you will need to bring along is any memorabilia or trinkets that you would like to add to your Sankofa's Silhouette. Full details on items that can be stitched to the wall hanging will be sent via email upon enrollment.
No - hanging rails are not included. The Sankofa's Silhouette will be finished with rod pockets on the back of the wall hanging, allowing you to insert your own dowel to use to hang the completed home décor piece on your wall.
Absolutely! But only in the Queen Bed accommodations. There is an additional charge for an additional person in your room. Please email [email protected] to request an additional guest registration for your room.